I read an article about the difference of feelings. That article said that if you like someone and that someone making mistakes, you will mad at her/him and usually you don’t want to talk to her/him for a few days or maybe weeks. They will tweet something bad about their boyfriend/girlfriend, like “My boyfriend pissed me off, I hate him! He is such a jerk” and etc. There was my friend, she tweeted something inappropriate about her boyfriend. Really really truly inappropriate. In my thought, if you don’t love him, why did you accept him as your boyfriend?
But, if you love someone and her/him making mistakes. you will usually say, “it’s okay, he/she just doesn’t know what is he/she doing”. I’m agree with this one, because love is much more powerful than anger. Like in Harry Potter movie, Voldemort couldn’t kill Harry because he was protected with his mother love, right? This is ever happened to me. When you truly love someone, you just can’t be mad at her/him. Once you mad at her/him, you will regret it in just a minute interval. That’s what happened to me.
Well, I’m wondering about that person who always mad at her/his boyfriend/girlfriend like a little kid who wants balloon, candy or chocolate. Is that still ‘love’? Because they look so demanding.
I ever found something funny on my twitter timeline, there was this girl, she has a boyfriend. She tweeted that she wanted her boyfriend to say “good morning” or “good night” to her via twitter like some boys did to their girl. And I was just like “Come on! Can’t you just accept him as he is??!!?!?? And what the heck is the meaning of saying good morning anyway? What important is that he loves you!”. Not every people shows their love by saying good morning, right? Some people have their own unique way to express their feelings.
And also the article said that love is all about giving, not demanding. It’s about giving the one you love happiness, even if it means you have to sacrificing your own happiness. I’m not saying that my relationship is perfect or my relationship is going well as it supposed to be. That’s all just a thought. No offense. I still have to learn a bunch too.